How to Book – and Why It Matters

At West Coast Tantra, we’re delighted to welcome those who are new to sensual massage. But to ensure a deeply nourishing experience for both of us, there are a few things you may not be aware of. Let me guide you in becoming the kind of client who not only receives beautifully—but contributes to the sacredness of the space we share.

“The journey begins the moment we connect - your voice is the doorway”

Why is your phone call so important?

Our booking process begins with a phone conversation. This is more than logistics—it’s energetic alignment. This first connection allows us both to feel into the dynamic: to ask questions, share expectations, and begin building the mutual trust that’s essential for the session to unfold in a safe, open, and authentic way.

For me, this call is non-negotiable. I’m welcoming you into my private, intentionally curated space. I want to make sure we are attuned not just in words, but in presence. This sets the tone for everything that follows.

Please also take a moment to read through my Best Practices. These will help you feel confident and aligned with the container we’re creating together.

A note about texting

I understand that texting can feel discreet, especially if you’re navigating privacy concerns. A short text to initiate contact is perfectly okay. But once I request to move to a phone call, continued texting becomes a red flag.

Let me be clear about what doesn’t work—and why:

• Texting after hours with “Hey, you available?” suggests you’re seeking something I don’t offer. I won’t respond to this kind of message.

• Ignoring my request to move to a phone call signals a reluctance to follow my lead. If we can’t build trust in conversation, how can we co-create the depth and openness the table invites?

• Flooding my phone with texts instead of making a call reads as disrespectful of my time and boundaries. In such cases, I’ll gently let you know I’m not the right practitioner for you.

• Haggling over price is another clear sign of misalignment. My rates are fair, clearly stated, and reflective of the quality and integrity of the experience I offer.

Booking with intention honors the journey we’re about to take together. Let’s begin with clarity, respect, and the willingness to co-create something meaningful.